What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
Do all therapists specialize in one specific type of therapy, or are they trained in multiple types?
39~ What are your love languages?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
Does being poor build better character than being born rich?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
Do you agree with Michael Moore that Donald Trump is "toast" in a political comeback?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
When will dating stop being so hard for Gen Z?
*** Random Questions ***
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
Can a meme heal what therapy can't?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
The Ice Breaker Questions
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
What are some reasons why people may fear strong men?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
Have you made a female relative or friend squirt?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Is it wrong of me to feel uncomfortable that my friend thinks my brother is hot?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
What can you do if someone makes a false accusation against you?
Nothing too Serious
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
Are you worried that the 2024 US presidential election will result in a close race?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
Would you read them together?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
52~ What are your hobbies?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Have you ever? Care to Share?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
What is your favorite position? Why?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
29- How superstitious are you?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
*** Questions About Me ***
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
If yes, what?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Any that are a turn off?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Any that are a turn off?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
How old are you? Male or Female?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
Family Relation Age Play
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Please share Did you stop?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
If you win, what will you make them do?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?